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- Instead of your life being in an oceanic love, nó đang đau khổ trong rãnh ghen tị bẩn thỉu. Nhưng trừ khi bạn bắt đầu hướng nội và tìm ra gốc rễ, you will not be able to transform it.
- Everybody can be freed from nightmares, from sufferings, from miseries, but of course not directly. The problem is that you cannot be freed from your suffering directly because you are clinging to it. It is not the suffering that is the problem, it is you who are clinging which is the problem. You don’t want to leave it. You brag about it, you talk about it. You even talk about how to get out of this misery. But one who has eyes can see that you are clinging to the misery as hard as possible. Just the presence of a master can help you to see whether the misery is clinging to you, or you are clinging to the misery. That is a very decisive point. Once you see that you are clinging to the misery, you are freed. Just the seeing of it, the very understanding, is freedom.
- Life cannot grow without challenges; and pains, miseries, sufferings bring challenges. You cannot become aware without suffering. đừng nói.
- The most important thing in life is to learn that you are not the body. That will give you such freedom from pain and from suffering. Not that suffering will disappear, not that there will not be any pain or cancer, they will be there but you will not be identified with them. You will be just a watcher. And if you can watch your own body as if it is somebody else’s body, you have attained something of tremendous importance. Your life has not been in vain. You have learned the lesson, the greatest lesson that is possible for any human being.
- You have looked everywhere, you have walked thousands of ways in thousands of lives, but you have never reached to yourself. This is the basic suffering: not to know yourself. Not to be aware of your eternity is the only misery — all miseries are small expressions of it.
- You will be thankful only when you have been completely renewed: you have been killed, and you are reborn — only then. Before that there is going to be much pain. Growth goes through pain, much suffering. Growth is not cheap.
- It is easy when you are suffering to stand aloof, to be aware. It is easy when you are miserable to be aware, because who wants to be miserable? Who wants to be in suffering? The experience of suffering, đau khổ, misery, itself helps you to get out of it.
- When suffering is acute, not just a tantrum, not just an act that you are putting on, not just a habit but a real suffering, a despair; when you see that life has no meaning, that each breath seems to be simply unnecessary… Why do you go on living, for what? — Không có gì sẽ xảy ra, and there is no exit either. When the pain of it becomes so intense that it goes beyond the limit of human toleration, suddenly you may come out of a nightmare. Then this so-called waking state will prove to be only a different kind of sleep, with open eyes.
- This is a very unconscious state. You are SUFFERING from desire, but you think you are suffering from things. People think they are suffering from their wives, from their husbands, children, society, mọi người. Không. Not at all. You are suffering only from one thing: tất cả những gì bạn có thể làm chỉ là nhận thức được chúng.
- It looks very difficult to trust that all that you are suffering is just a dream created by yourself — but it is so. Because all those who have become awakened say so! Not a single awakened person has said otherwise. And in lucid moments of awareness you will also feel the same.
- To be miserable, to be in suffering, is our own effort, it is our own creation. Suffering has the signature of man, blessing has the signature of God. Suffering has to be earned — when you are able to see you will be surprised: suffering needs much more work, much more effort, because to suffer is almost making the impossible possible. It is not your nature to suffer, and still you create it. It needs arduous effort. Going against nature needs much work — and people are working day in, ngày nghỉ, năm trong, hết năm, life in, life out, people are working hard to create more and more suffering for themselves.
- If you are suffering, nhớ, you must be creating it. There is no other way to suffer. But if you feel blessed, then it is not your doing: it is a showering from the beyond. Suffering is man-made, bliss is god-made — bliss is your nature, your very nature, your very ground of being. When this has been seen, bạn đã về nhà.
- Tôi dạy bạn ích kỷ, because only out of true selfishness is altruism born. A really selfish person cannot be against anybody, a really selfish person cannot hurt anybody — because hurting somebody you have to hurt yourself first. You cannot create suffering for others without creating suffering for yourself. Before you are angry with someone, you have to be angry within yourself. Before you are violent with somebody, you have to go through many nightmares.
- UNDERSTAND WELL: you are the cause of your suffering, không ai khác. To recognize this is the first step into being a religious person. You don’t throw your responsibility onto others, you simply recognize the fact that “I am the cause of my suffering.” And with that, tất nhiên rồi, you will feel a little sad, you will look a little stupid. Nếu bạn là nguyên nhân, then why do you go on creating suffering for yourself?
