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1. Whenever there is love you will be a king. And then you are free — because it is a question of love; it does not depend on her. Whenever there is love you will be a king; whenever there is not love you will be a beggar. It is love that gives you the glory. Да, the love has come through her window; it can come through any other window. It can simply shower on you without anybody. It simply needs understanding — that it is love, not the person. The person is instrumental. Then you are not imprisoning the person. Love cannot be imprisoned and there is no need to imprison it. Love is your song — you can sing it any time. It is like breathing. Nobody is going to take it away from you; nobody can take it away from you.
2. Love should be without any expectations; otherwise laughter dies. When you expect, frustration comes in. Nobody can fulfill your expectations, and there is nobody who needs to fulfill them. They come out of a mad, neurotic mind. If somebody fulfills them then too love disappears. Then the other becomes a necessity, a need, a possession — a valuable possession but a possession all the same.
3. We are creating a different kind of world based on love, in love and for love. The ordinary world is against love. It does not give freedom to the individual, it does not have any respect for the individual, it does not accept the individual and his way of life.
4. Become a language of love. Facts are okay, but just okay; they don’t make life a rejoicing, they don’t create celebration. They can give you a better standard of life but they cannot give you a new passion for life, they cannot give you intensity of life. They cannot give you quality; they can only give you quantity. Only the language of love starts penetrating you through a different dimension, through the vertical dimension.
5. When you become accustomed to love and you know what is going to happen, it becomes a routine, predictable; it is no more of any value. Love lives only when it remains unpredictable; one never knows what is going to happen. When nothing can be taken for granted, ни на одно мгновение, when one can allow and one can accept that this is going to happen, when the next moment remains open with no possibility of predicting, then there is laughter because there is constant surprise.
6. Глубокая удовлетворенность - видимый признак любви. Всякий раз, когда человек влюблен, он в глубоком удовлетворении. Любовь нельзя увидеть, но довольство, глубокое удовлетворение вокруг него…каждый его вздох, каждое его движение, само его существо — содержание.
7. Мы думаем, что любим. И если ты думаешь, что любишь, тогда нет возможности для любви случиться — потому что если это любовь, тогда все закрыто. Предпримите новые усилия. Попытайтесь найти в другом истинное существо, которое скрыто. Не принимайте никого как должное. Каждый индивидуум — такая загадка, что, если вы будете углубляться в него бесконечно. Но нам скучно с другим — потому что только периферия, и всегда периферия.
8. Помните всегда: Влюбился, you are always wrong. And then the possibility will open and the other will also feel the same. We create the feeling in the other. When lovers are close, immediately thoughts go jumping from one to the other. Even if they are not saying anything, they are silent, they communicate.
9. Language is for non-lovers, those who are not in love. For lovers, silence is enough language. Without saying anything, they go on speaking.
10. If you take love as sadhana, then don’t say the other is wrong. Just try to find out: где-то, something must be wrong in you, and drop that wrongness.
11. These are the two paths. Love means working out your path through relationship. And meditation: working it out in your loneliness. Love and meditation — these are the two paths. Feel which will suit you. Then bring your total energies to it, and move on that path.
12. Любовь, and more love becomes available; use more and you have more. This is the law of life. You can eat the cake and have it also. Сострадание, любовь, activity, whatsoever the dimension, the same rule applies. Whatsoever you want more of, do the same. If you want to become an infinite source of love, then go on sharing love as much as you can. Don’t be a miser; only misers lose energy. And we are all misers, that’s why we always feel dissipated.
13. When you are in love, language is not needed. Gestures…even silence becomes eloquent.
14. Love needs another; meditation can be done alone. Man can achieve through meditation — that’s why he can achieve directly. He can be alone. He is alone deep down. Loneliness comes naturally to man. For a woman, to be alone is difficult, очень сложно, почти невозможно. Her whole being is a deep urge to love, and for love, the other is needed. How can you love if the other is not there? You can meditate if the other is not there — нет проблем. Woman, the female energy, reaches the meditative state through love; and the male energy reaches love through meditation.
15. Our love is a relationship. And when love is a relationship, это создает страдания. When love is a state of being, it creates bliss. A Buddha is also in love, but he is not trying to love you. Simply because of the way he is, love spreads. Love becomes a perfume and goes to the far comers of the earth.