Oshoの女性への引用, Oshoの洞察 & 女性の引用

Oshoの女性への引用

1. Women live longer than men, ほぼ5年以上; だから世界にたくさんの未亡人がいるのです. そして女性は病気に対してより抵抗力があります, 疾患. 女性はより寛容です, もっと受け入れる. From where comes this strength? — it comes from their receptivity.
2. To be feminine is to become passive, to be feminine is to allow; to be feminine is to wait, to be feminine is not to be in a hurry and tense; to be feminine is to be in love.
3. For every one hundred and fifteen boys that are born, only one hundred girls are born — because fifteen boys will pop off by the time they become sexually mature, but the girls will remain; they have a certain stamina. Women fall sick less than men. Women commit suicide less than men — although they talk about suicide more, they simply talk. At the most they take sleeping pills, but always in such a small quantity that they never die. Men commit suicide in almost double the numbers. Women live five years longer than men.
4. Women are more patient, more tolerant than men. Men are very impatient and very intolerant. Women are less violent than men. Women don’t commit murders; it is the man who commits murders, who wages crusades, who is always getting ready for war, who invents all kinds of deadly weapons — atomic bombs, nuclear weapons. The woman is completely out of this whole game of death.
5. Women cannot be competitive: they cannot fight, they cannot struggle. And if you find a woman somewhere who struggles and fights, who is competitive, then something of womanhood is missing in her. Physically she may be a woman, psychologically she is a man.
6. We will have a more beautiful world if all women — and women are half of the world — are allowed to grow their talents, their genius. It is not a question at all… nobody is higher, nobody is lower. Women are women, men are men; they have differences, but differences don’t make anybody higher or lower. Their differences create their attraction.
7. Men and women should not be in a contract, like marriage. They should be in love — but they should retain their freedom. They don’t owe anything to each other.
8. Women have a totally different kind of being. Her whole body needs love. It is not sexuality. Her whole body is orgasmic. That’s why there is tremendous trouble. Man comes to orgasm quickly — within two minutes — and the woman has not even started. The woman takes a little time. Her whole body has to become ready, ecstatic. Her whole body has to join the dance. Only then can she feel orgasmic joy. So she is not actually interested in the prick. She is more interested in hugging, in being close to you, in the warmth of your body. She wants to be surrounded by your love, she wants to surround you with her love.
9. For millions of years women have suffered because man has not been able to give them what they need. Man has simply used them for his sexuality. They feel almost like a commodity to be used, and then the man turns over and goes to sleep and starts snoring. This is so ugly and the woman is crying. She has fear. After each lovemaking the woman cries, because she has not got anything. Her standard of love is higher than the standard of man.
10. If men and women who are in deep love can be playful with each other’s energies, there is no need of indulging in sex, because sex cannot give you anything — it simply takes something away from you. It brings your death closer. It is your life force. But if the woman and the man can just be playful, then they are enriching each other. Then the dialectics of life works, and they both are more than they were before. Both have gained; nobody has lost anything.
11. Love should be the only way for men and women to live together. No other ritual is needed.
12. 世界中の女性が男性のように振る舞うためにあらゆる方法で努力しています. 彼らは紳士服を着ています, 男性のようにタバコを吸う, そして彼らができることは何でも. 彼らは男性がいつもそれを使っていたように言語を使います, 傲慢になる, 攻撃的, 女性らしさを失う. 解放運動の女性たちを見る: 彼らは何かを失った — 何か柔らかいもの, フェミニン, receptive, 受け身, もうありません. 彼らは攻撃的です, 暴力的な.
13. A man is not of necessity masculine, a woman is no{ of necessity feminine. A woman can be masculine, for example, Joan of Are or, in India, Laxmibhai. These women were warriors, great soldiers; they were not feminine at all. Biologically, もちろん, they were feminine, their bodies were those of women, but their very souls were those of men. They have to be counted as masculine. And there have been men — 詩人, dancers, musicians, singers, painters — who were very feminine. So soft, so round was their being that psychologically they were women. They may have been able to reproduce children, they may have been able to become fathers and husbands, but deep down they were not masculine; their psychology can only be called feminine. It happens — 実際には, it happens more often than you will ever think.
14. The feminine mind cannot have a sense of time. It is the male, aggressive mind who is time-worried, time-conscious. They are totally different. The feminine is not in any hurry — there is no hurry. Really, there is nowhere to reach. That’s why women cannot become great leaders, great scientists, great warriors — they cannot become. And if sometimes there are freak women, they have a male mind. 例えば, Joan of Arc, or Laxmi Bai: they are only feminine in body; the mind is not feminine at all. It is masculine. For the feminine mind there is no goal, and our world is man-oriented. So women cannot be really great in a man-oriented world, because greatness is related to the goal. Some goal has to be achieved; then you become great — and the feminine mind is not after any goal. Here and now she is happy. Here and now she is unhappy. There is nowhere to move. The feminine mind exists in the moment. That’s why the feminine curiosity is never for the far-away; it is always about the neighborhood. She is not interested in what is happening in Vietnam. She is interested in what is happening in the other house — the intimate, the here. The man looks absurd: `Why are you worried about what Nixon is doing or what Mao is doing?’ The woman is interested in the love affairs that are going on in the neighborhood. She is curious about the near; the far is meaningless. Time doesn’t exist. Time exists for those who have a goal to reach. 覚えて, time can exist only when you have to reach somewhere. If you don’t have to reach anywhere, what is the meaning of time? Then there is no hurry.
15. A woman has perfect qualities to become a disciple. Surrender is easy for her. It is natural, part of the feminine being. Surrender is easy; surrender comes easily. A woman becomes a good disciple. And you will always find: wherever you will find four disciples, three will be women. This will be the proportion all over the world. Mahavir had forty thousand sannyasins — thirty thousand were women. The same proportion with Buddha. You go in any church, any temple and just count — you will always find the proportion three to one. In fact all the religions are supported, fed, by women; but they are disciples.
16. If you ask the feminine part it will not give you any logic, it will simply say ‘No, don’t take it’ — just as all women do. They don’t argue, they simply conclude. Argument is not feminine, the process of argument is not appealing to them. They simply jump to a conclusion. They conclude. Intuition is conclusive, reason goes into the details of it, thinks for and against, then decides after a long process of thinking. But the intuitive part simply says yes and no.
17. Women have to learn karate, aikido, judo — they have to learn all sorts of such subtle techniques — which are feminine techniques but which can make women tremendously strong. Women are not as tall as men, they are not as hard as men, but there is no need — there are softer and tremendously powerful ways.
18. 女性はいつも所属したい. それは特定の個人とは何の関係もありません; それは女性らしさの本質と関係があります. 誰かに寄りかかるのは女性の心の一部です, 憑依するそして憑依される. だからそれは誰かがそのようであるという問題ではありません. すべての女性, 多かれ少なかれ, そのようなものです. それが彼らの本質的な品質です. そして女性がその質を失うとき, 彼女は彼女の女性らしさの何かを失います. それなら彼女はあまり価値がない. 彼女はほとんど男のようです; 彼女は男性の心を持っています. あなたはその柔らかさを感じないでしょう, 女性に優雅さと美しさを与えるそのもろさ.
19. In three thousand years five thousand wars have been fought — this is what the male mind has done. I am in support of a matriarchal system. I would like the power to go to women because basically they are non — 攻撃的; they are loving, they are compassionate. But it has nothing to do with biology really; even the male mind can become feminine. And the whole process of transforming the male mind is the art of meditation.
20. I would like the woman to become as feminine as possible, only then can she flower. And the man needs to be as masculine as possible, only then can he flower. When they are polar opposites, a great attraction, a great magnetism, arises between them. And when they come close, when they meet in intimacy, they bring two different worlds, two different dimensions, two different richnesses, and the meeting is a tremendous blessing, 祝福.
21. We can make a better world together. Men and women should be really half-and-half of a whole. There are qualities which men have and women do not have; there are qualities which women have and men do not have. Both together, the human being will be richer in every possible way. for every one hundred and fifteen boys that are born, only one hundred girls are born — because fifteen boys will pop off by the time they become sexually mature, but the girls will remain; they have a certain stamina. Women fall sick less than men. Women commit suicide less than men — although they talk about suicide more, they simply talk. At the most they take sleeping pills, but always in such a small quantity that they never die. Men commit suicide in almost double the numbers. Women live five years longer than men.